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How free is your mind when it comes to sex? Are you an “anything goes” type of girl or bashful and inhibited? By Keysha Davis
Sexually speaking, as daughters of the feminist and sexual-liberation movement of the 1960s, we’ve been left with a grey area where matters of sexual conduct are concerned. In our mother’s era, the order of the day was to marry young and start a family as soon as possible, which left very little room for sexual experimentation beyond the confines of marriage. On the contrary, we now exist in an era where anything goes and are surrounded by hyper-sexualized iconic figures such as Lil’ Kim and Jordan. The pressure to be “bad bad and wicked inna bed” is enormous. Suffice to say, many women struggle with sexual confidence and are pulled in both directions when trying to locate exactly where their sexual compass lies. Church Girl sexual type
“I always considered myself to be quite a sexually liberated girl, until I met Jeff* when I was 24,” says Helen, now 30. “He wanted to try things I considered a little risqué, like anal sex and threesomes. He even tried to tape us having sex one day and would simply laugh it off and call me frigid if I refused any of his requests. In the end we both grew apart, but he’s left me with long-lasting insecurities about how good I am in bed.” Do you often find yourself analyzing your sexual performance and asking questions such as: Was I good enough, or Does he think I’m a bore? If so, it’s time to ditch those debilitating thoughts and liberate not just your mind but your body, too. Good sex should be about enjoying yourself, engaging your senses and having fun – not an open audition for a role in a porn flick. Similarly, if you’re holding back your sexual urges by not expressing your needs to your partner, you also need to give yourself a sexual freedom make-over. “Church-girl sex” and “marriage sex” are slang terms applied to women who simply go through the motions during sex. The greatest obstacle the Church Girl type faces is having the confidence to set her own sexual boundaries without fear of judgment. Modern Girl sexual type
You sip Cosmopolitans, spend a copious amount of your salary on sparkly footwear, and mourn the loss of Sex & The City… Congratulations, you are a fully certified member of the 21st century, girl. And just like your Manhattanite heroines, you view yourself as sexually confident. Chances are you’ve bedded 10 or more partners and feel assertive enough not to lie about this statistic if asked. You own or have experimented with a Rabbit, the infamous vibrator that catapulted to the top of the sex-toy list. There’s nothing you’re not up for. Or is there? On the surface, the Modern Girl sexual type seems to have the perfect balance. She knows how to ask for what she wants in bed, and scoffs at the idea of a woman being sexually submissive. However, don’t be fooled by the faux air of self-assurance. Just like the Church Girl sexual type, the Modern Girl harbours traditional values and engages only in sexual activities that are acceptable within the parameters of mainstream society and her peer group. Up the sexual ante a notch. Try getting off with the guy from your office that ticks all your boxes but just happens to be from another ethnic group. Or try kissing a girl – you might even enjoy it. Don’t let other people’s sexual values make you miss out on all the fun you could be having. Liberated Girl sexual type
You’ve tried it all – dominatrix, kinky sex, swinging from the chandeliers – and you feel obliged to tell the world about it. You’re so comfortable with your sexuality that others often feel uncomfortable with your frankness. Being this liberated sexually can often give off the wrong signals. Guys will probably mistake your openness for sluttiness, and you may find it difficult to form a committed relationship because men view you solely as a sex object. While we would never suggest you change the essence of your personality – many would kill to be as free-spirited as you are – just remember there’s a time and place for everything. Bear this in mind when revealing the sordid details of your dirty weekend to your friend while her grandma sits silently listening in shock.
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Some consider oral sex the most intimate of all sex acts. Cunnilingus, the technical term for performing oral sex on a woman, can be incredibly intimate. To be good at it you have to be an excellent reader of her body, her breathing, her movements, and what she may be telling you with words. Everything you do is for your partner in that moment and not based on a performance expectations, lessons from porn, or previous oral sex experiences. It can be a bit Zen, but with more saliva. Time Required: 30-60 minutes Here's How:
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We always suspected that the French were having the most sex, but now we have pseudo-scientific proof, thanks to an on-line study conducted by the renowned statisticians at the Durex condom company. But it's the British—to everyone's astonishment—who seem to be the world's most attentive lovers.
Other key findings: the Chinese have the most partners, the Italians the most orgasms, and chilly Iceland the highest vibrator usage.
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How Sexually Adventurous Are You?
How 'bout in a car?
Or in the restroom of a crowded bar? Some women prefer their sex straightforward and uncomplicated - missionary with the lights out suits them just fine. Others, more daring in their escapades, aren't satisfied unless they're swinging from the ceiling. Just how sexually adventurous are you? Take our sex quiz to find out.
From Cory Silverberg, Your Guide to Sexuality. About.com Health's Disease and Condition content is reviewed by the Medical Review Board
Few if any vibrators come with instruction manuals.
On the one hand, you might think that no manual is necessary -- after all shouldn’t you know how to use a vibrator?
But if you’ve never used one, how exactly are you supposed to know how?
Most people do manage to stumble their way to pleasure with a vibrator, but if you’re looking for a few helpful hints here is a beginner’s guide for women on how to use a vibrator. Time Required: For Your First Time, a Half Hour or More
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Do you remember as a kid the first time that you stumbled upon a nudist sunning at the local lake, or even your friend’s sister coming out of the shower? Do you remember the rush, the sense of excitement found in that illicit moment? We all have felt that surge of adrenaline of catching or being caught in a compromised position, and there are a whole bunch of thrill-seekers out there who have tapped into this type of excitement, and have created a sexual lifestyle from it.
There are three basic types of exhibitionist-type behavior that you can enjoy with a little guts and gusto. First off there are exhibitionists who wish to display themselves sexually to other people, singly or in groups. Their intent is usually to surprise and/or sexually arouse the viewer, giving the exhibitionist an ego rush. The second is to display themselves and their partner sexually to other people. The third and perhaps most accessible to the general public’s more restrained tastes is sex in a public place, but without the intent to let others see. This version is more about the possibility of being caught than actually the desire to be watched.
The voyeuristic aspects of North America are fairly all pervasive. For example streaking at sporting events has become a common occurrence, and fairly accepted. Paparazzi have demonstrated the public’s almost unquenchable desire for nude or almost nude celebrities, whether on the beach on the French Riviera or on the red carpet in Hollywood.
Even more Extensive evidence of this exhibitionist popularity can be seen with the success of "Mardi Gras Flashing" websites, almost always featuring women (rather than men) voluntarily exposing their breasts, buttocks and/or genitalia. A similar, and more comedic but still overtly sexual, version of the same can be seen in the Girls Gone Wild enterprise.
We all have a small desire to be seen and to perform our sexuality for acceptance and ego boosting. Try it; you never know, you might just love it.
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They say that to begin to do something scary you have to visualize it and then start in small increments. There are a number of different ways to acclimate ones self to the eroticism of being naked and exposed in public. By becoming comfortable to the act of exhibiting one’s naughty bits to the world, the pleasure derived from the expectation of discovery can be primary and not hampered by ill preparation. Watching videos that have exhibitionist fantasies can be familiarizing and potentially increase the desire and the wherewithal to carry out the fantasy. Some experts recommend starting off by either being naked in the privacy of a back yard or by making love to your partner with the blinds up, but lights off (this works best at night), so that it seems as though people walking by can see in.
Getting comfortable with the concept is what is important here. So any opportunity, like camping, or nature walks, that have the seclusion to reduce the possibility of being discovered to almost zero, should be capitalized upon. By practicing in this manner you and your partner can warm to the process and the ins and outs.
One way to increase comfort while preparing to perform some public lasciviousness is using masks or costumes. Sometimes it's easier to show off when your sure nobody will recognize you. Whatever it takes, a domino mask, or a full-fledged head mask to make you secure enough to shed your inhibitions and perhaps your clothes.
Another thing to consider is clothing. Sure, raising your shirt, lifting your skirt, or dropping your pants is always great for a quickie, but it's clumsy. To get naked fast you need clothes that come off quick, but they also need to make you look normal when you need. A trench coat is an obvious choice, but during warm weather a light button up dress is even better. Overalls are just as quick to get off, and can be used for basic exhibitionist shows too, if you find you're not ready to go all the way. You can also get tear-away clothes like those used by strippers. They're secured at the seams with Velcro so they can be removed quickly without any effort. If you can’t find such things and are not an expert in sewing, you can always try track pants, also known as tear-away pants.
Experiment with different ideas, keep it simple and try to enjoy it. The most important thing about this process is to remember that practice makes perfect, and that if this is something that arouses you, take it seriously, so that when you venture out into the real world.
Like any new activity you don’t want to climb Everest before you see if you enjoy humping up Kilimanjaro. Before you start humping in the middle of your chemistry class here are a few hints for the novice exhibitionist. When you have graduated from the small stuff, we have suggested a few more risky intermediate locations. Finally, as the student becomes the teacher you own creativity will be tested. We have sketched the details but have left the master 'strokes' up to you.
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Not all of these suggestions are meant to be places or ways to have sex with your partner. Some are simply fun and exciting ways to show off a little skin and get comfortable with exhibition in general.
Joy-Riding – This is a great beginner, whether it is just getting naked in a moving car, or doing a little heavy petting while you or your lover is driving, the exposure is minimal and allows for easy getaways.
Off-Roading - Beside a busy highway is a great novice spot to show off your goods. The best is if you can find somewhere adjacent to a highway, like an access road or something that overlooks the highway but is inaccessible from the main road. This will reduce the exposure and contact with people. So if you want to do a little flashing, or a bit of bumping and grinding, this is a fun way to do it without risking too much. It is nice as well because you can choose location based on distance from the highway, close for more exposure and little further for the faint of heart.
Skinny Dipping - This is a great way to practice taking it off outside of the home, if you can find a private place that is secluded enough for your liking.
All Aboard: Lover’s Lane - Once people get settled in their seats they don't often move around. Choose a quiet time of the day, and wait until your train has moved off. Then start the show. Having a woman who can show off breasts or lift their skirts can be very arousing and easy to conceal. Using digital stimulation is easy in this situation without getting caught. Of course, you can vary the danger depending on the time of day, so that it is busier, with more people about.
Take the following suggestions as hints for increasing both the risk and fun of exposing yourself and your lover to the rest of the world. The more flesh the more fun.
Don’t Freak the Fish - A great place to get scandalous is in the water. Many times you can find beaches with varying degrees of population. The water provides great cover, and you can literally make whoopee in front of hundreds of people without them ever being the wiser, though some discerning beach goers may get what is going on.
Why, is That Acrylic or Oil you Wearing? - This is a great one for the solo- female exhibitionist, and even her voyeuristic partner. You can buy cheap body paint in toy shops, and a little bit of practice should result in a reasonable facsimile of a bikini top... People 'see' the bikini; they don't see that there isn't one.
Try Her on for Size - Go into a change room but leave the curtain just slightly open, so that if someone is at the right angle, they might be able to see into it. There are lots of levels of daringness here; the extent to which the curtain is left open and what you two are doing in there. You can go from just being nude to all out naughtiness.
When the Moon hits Your Eyes... - Start going out late at night. Especially in the summer, cool night air is lovely against the skin. Try walking along the road with nothing on under a light coat. Find somewhere comfortable to disrobe and then use your imagination. You can start by just being naked and move on to more adventurous things.
Just a walk in the woods - Take a walk in the woods, off the beaten track. It is good a place to get serious about exhibitionism since anyone who stumbles on you two will probably not be too disturbed.
There’s Enough Room for Two!... - Photo booths are not just for taking photographs to put into your passport!
This is the big league. Let it all hang, out, but be careful the stakes just went way up.
It’s a Beautiful day in the Neighborhood - Early morning, everyone should be in bed, but you never can tell. Use your imagination.
It’s a Party in My Pants... - Get a little too excited at an open air party… people don't usually care what happens when they're celebrating New Years, Fourth of July, or even listening to their favorite band at an open air concert.
When this Car’s a Rockin'... - Drive-ins, if you can find them, scenic car parks or even your local Wal-Mart parking lot, can make for some risky fun. Display, play, whatever, with a willing and enthusiastic audience.
The following are some suggestions on how to reduce harm and exposure and otherwise good exhibitionist etiquette.
Do NOT do this in front of children!
Check out the location before you start.
Plan an escape route or explanation if the worst happens.
Remember that other people may not like it, so be respectful of them
Remember that you can get away with more than you think
Have something available for cover up.
Go at a pace that is comfortable for both of you. A daring exhibitionist is a confident exhibitionist. **This only comes as a result of experience, so don't rush it.
Clean up after yourself, especially if you use protection (which you should!).
Always be on the lookout for good sites
Don’t be too surprised if you end up on a web site...
Say what you like, what you expect, how far you will go. And expect the same from your partner.
Because good agreements makes good sex. (excerpt AIDS Awareness campaign Belgium)
If you believe what you read, Australians are a sexy lot.
We have sex at a younger age and with more partners than our parents, and if we had our way, we'd like to do it more often. But how do we know all this, and what does it mean?
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